This paper stems from an on-going 3-year research project into the gender identity of elite males in England, c. 1700-c.1900. It is based on the family papers of 15 landed estate-owning families, and offers insights into social, cultural, normative and behavioural practices that shaped the identity of gentry males over ...
(Show more)This paper stems from an on-going 3-year research project into the gender identity of elite males in England, c. 1700-c.1900. It is based on the family papers of 15 landed estate-owning families, and offers insights into social, cultural, normative and behavioural practices that shaped the identity of gentry males over three centuries. In the course of this research we have identified a number of interpretative and methodological problems, which we believe are relevant to the themes of this strand.
The paper considers these two types of problems:
1) Interpretative Problems:
• Problems of distribution – surviving correspondence is not distributed evenly between family members, or across generations. This reflects accidents of survival, but also structural weaknesses in collections, favouring relationships that drew letters into a familial archive over those that dispersed them.
• Problems of distribution in the life-cycle –some points in the life-cycle generated more (surviving) letters than others: later school years, university, courtship, and correspondence with children as young adults, often immediately after marriage or entering business/professions. There is much less evidence about those remaining within the domestic family, during early childhood, after marriages of eldest sons, and between husbands and wives.
• Problems of self-selection – often only the more diligent children wrote home. Open or prolonged disputes were relatively rare, and aberrant family members tended not to correspond.
• Problems of self-censorship – correspondence is skewed towards some subjects (social events, money, children, health, politics, religion, travel, and family gossip), and away from others (sex, detailed emotional revelations, extended considerations of abstract concepts – such as ‘manliness’ – or detail about the distribution of power/authority in the household/family).
These create two deeper problems of omission and evasion. Diligent children often ‘echoed’ the values prescribed by their parents, often merely telling their parents what they thought they wanted to hear. Similarly, correspondents whose perspectives or values were well known often wrote letters in which such norms remain tantalizingly implicit, and unarticulated.
2) Methodological Problems:
These omissions, evasions, and implicit meanings force us to uncover sub-texts, implied cultural norms beneath the ‘official transcript’ of familial values. In reconstructing expressions of gender identity, we become prisoners of the subjectivities of our correspondents but, can use these subjectivities to understand the values and practices implied in this process of self-presentation, self-censorship or ‘self-writing’.
Consequently, we have supplemented our basic source critiques with a second level of analysis:
• Reconstructing the ‘field’ of gender-subjects, and the family ‘grammar’ that underpinned their discussion – to identify embedded assumptions upon which these discussions were founded.
• Comparative analysis relating these observed norms to those expressed in other sample families, and over time, with comparable situations at other periods in the same family or others in the sample.
• The central interpretative endeavour, to relate these ‘surface-level’ values to mid-level ‘conjunctural’ gender norms about fashion, civility, gentility, courtesy or taste, and then to deeper-level fundamentals of identity, notably ‘manly’ perennials such as honour, virtue, wisdom and courage.
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