Civilizing children in play and parenting. Affects and materiality during the years of the Cold War.
Two connecting papers by Ning de Coninck-Smith and Ellen Schrumpf
University of South-Eastern Norway
University of Aarhus
During the last Century, the Western child has been brought up to become an individualized, democratic welfare state citizen, and ...
(Show more)Civilizing children in play and parenting. Affects and materiality during the years of the Cold War.
Two connecting papers by Ning de Coninck-Smith and Ellen Schrumpf
University of South-Eastern Norway
University of Aarhus
During the last Century, the Western child has been brought up to become an individualized, democratic welfare state citizen, and childhood as well as children have moved to the center of public and private attention (Aries 1980, Heywood 1995, Schrumpf 2007, Sandin 1986, de Coninck-Smith, 2018) In this paper, we focus on two power- full phenomenon and institutions, which have had major influence on children’s upbringing, namely play and parenthood. According to shifting ideologies, values and perspectives of the ideal childhood the paper analyzes the relationship between play, parenting and education and how children was educated emotionally - from within – and materially in play and playgrounds - from without (Frykman og Löfgren 1994, Zelizer 1994).
In this paper, education is understood in its broadest sense, covering the civilization of children’s bodies, spaces, time and souls. (Elias 1994) We aim to elaborate two different approaches to education in play/playground and parenthood/parenting, namely the affective and material approach. The purpose of the paper is to answer the following questions:
How have children been educated within the frames of parenthood and play/playgrounds in a context of changing emotional and material values and discourses? Do the two different settings mirror or differ from each other, could there be different understanding of the world of boys and girls, poor and middle class children?
Taking the years around WW2 as our point of departure, we want to inscribe parenting and play into the wider changes of childhood at a time, when religious and medical ideals were replaced with democratic and liberal ideals. During the years of the cold war, children were educated into the Nordic welfare state? and to a growing degree consumer society. Despite Nordic childhood is frequently seen as something special, the paper argues, that Nordic childhood underwent a process of Americanization due to a growing knowledge and awareness of US developmental psychology, suburban development and way of life. This meant between many thing, that children’s rooms became a new norm, that boys and girls should no longer sleep together, that little children should no longer vegetate in their cots, and that the playful child replaced former times industrious children.
The ideas were not applicated 1:1, they were discussed and translated though meetings, conferences, journals and personal networks. A case in point were the relations between the Norwegian psychologist Asa Gruda Skard, the Swedish reformer Alva Myrdal and the Danish school psychologist Anne Marie Nørvig. They translated each other’s books, cited them in their own works and invited each other to give talks. It was knowledge circulation for the sake of the child and its parents.
In our two cases, we will look for, how the new ideas about a democratic, liberal and consuming childhood were played out in parental advice books, practiced in parenting and in the designing of playing spaces. Taking our examples from Norway and Danmark opens up an opportunity to discuss path dependency within ideas about how to raise children, since Norway being a later urbanized and modernized country than Denmark e.g. ( Andresen et al., 2011) We are curious to know, if the debate about pocket money played out differently in the two countries – as well as the amount of toys, children ‘should’ have. We would also like to know, what happened to the 19th century view of the family as an intimate and quasi-sacred space, and as a heaven of sincere affection and authentic feeling (Frevert 2011), when mothers entered the labor force.
We will look into how the new ideas were turned into practice and how and/or if they challenged conventional wisdom about the good childhood. To mothers who did not (yet) own a washing machine, children playing with dirt were not necessarily appealing, nor the fact that early pot-training, a help to the mother with many children, was something of yesterday. To this purpose we will study letters from the readers of parental magazines of the time.
The preliminary title of Ellen Schrumps paper is:
Bringing up children in post WW2 Norway. Joys and sorrow in parental magazines.
The preliminary title of Ning de Coninck-Smiths paper is:
Democratic spaces. Designing spaces for play in post WW2 Denmark.
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