The collection of Estonian life histories includes more than 3,500 manuscript life stories, which provide a cross-section of changes in both society and mental attitudes over the past 30 years.
In the life stories told in the 1990s, it is rare to see a depiction of intergenerational conflict. The narrators of ...
(Show more)The collection of Estonian life histories includes more than 3,500 manuscript life stories, which provide a cross-section of changes in both society and mental attitudes over the past 30 years.
In the life stories told in the 1990s, it is rare to see a depiction of intergenerational conflict. The narrators of these stories were mostly born before World War II in the independent Republic of Estonia. As expected, their attention is focused on the conflict of people and political power caused by the establishment of Soviet power in Estonia. Family relationships were portrayed mostly as harmonious. Conflicts within the family were spoken of as misunderstandings, that occurring from time to time, which did not, however, lead to tragic or traumatic consequences.
However, in the stories told in the 21st century, the issue of alienation between parents and children is becoming more and more important. On the one hand, this is due to the separation of children from their parents, either because of the war or political imprisonment, as well as because of the way of life after the war. Often parents left their young children with their grandparents to somehow organize their own lives. But next to it, it is obvious that the understanding of the family and the organization of internal relations inside of the family has changed radically in the second half of the 20th century.
Based on some examples chosen from the life stories’ collection, the questions will be ask: (1) what manifestations and the factors that cause them come to light when daughters talk about the conflicts between themselves and their mother; (2) why in some cases we can talk about the daughter's accusations, but in other cases we see how the narrator tries to understand the mother; (3) what changes in the relationship between mother and children that took place in Estonian society in the second half of the 20th century can be highlighted based on the observed stories; (4) how the rules of storytelling have changed when the topic of conversation is family relationships.
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